- You apologize often.
- You feel burdened by the things you have to do.
- You can’t say no.
- You act like the people around you.
- You need praise to feel good.
- You don’t admit when your feelings are hurt.
This isn’t me all the time but there are times when I’m feeling insecure or afraid of whatever might be going on so I lapse into this kind of crap. Also, I think they have number 1 wrong. People pleasers don’t consciously pretend to do anything. I think a better way to phrase that would be “You are reluctant to disagree with anyone.” Right? The rest of it, oh yea, I can empathize.
This is annoying, at best, to stronger people who are not as dependent. I refer you to this post, which is kinda funny because I’m usually annoying for a couple reasons. I’m either being insecure or being very content with the “Marta-ness of Marta” and am my funky, weirdo self, in full bloom.
So, here I go...
Moving from the insecure to my weirdo self.
Warning: I’m usually annoying.